Starting Today, I Want You to Love Yourself

What other people think of you does not matter

I’ve got a secret for you. What other people think about you, doesn’t matter. Let me repeat that. What other people think of you does NOT matter!

Your life, your dreams, & your goals are your business. The only opinion that should matter to you is your own. If at the end of the day you can look in the mirror at yourself and say that you did your very best, then you’re doing just fine. Stop being so hard on yourself.


Opinions are a dime a dozen, no make that a nickel

Sure, people will always tell you what they think, but you have the choice to listen or not. People will always try to make your business their business, but that’s their problem. The only person you owe anything to is you.

If someone tells you that you’re too this or too that, ignore it. You’re beautiful just the way you are. When people tell you that you should be more like him or her or do things like they do, ignore it & do your thing.

Every person out there has the universal right to march to the beat of their own drum & as long as you’re not hurting yourself or anyone else then you’re good to go. March on!

Critics are a dime a dozen, but what’s truly unique is a cheerleader. If someone is constantly telling you how to be or saying that you’re not enough- most likely the problem is with the way they feel about themselves, not you. You are well within your rights to flip them the bird and walk away.

Walk away from your naysayers, and ignore the haters in your life. Go in search of people who want to uplift you. Go find those who celebrate your victories and support you when you do fall short. Find your tribe of love & light. Find those who can appreciate you even when you are at your lowest and have faith.

Have faith in your abilities to transcend the obstacles before you. Be steadfast in the belief that YOU are perfect & exactly  where you need to be for you. The Universe will keep you on track & even if you lose your way, all you have to do is pay attention to the signs and follow them back to your true path.


Be true to yourself

Be true to yourself, and if someone doesn’t get it or wants to tear you down for it, then leave them standing there watching as you walk away. Believe me, it’s far better to walk alone than to try and convince someone to walk with you only to have them slow you down or stop you from your growth.

You’ve come too far now to get hung up where you don’t belong. You are destined for great things if you want them, but the Universe only helps those who help themselves. Starting today, I want you to love yourself enough to let go of other peoples opinions of you.I want you to give yourself permission to chase your dreams. I want you to be the best version of yourself that you can. Starting today, it’s time that you truly care about you, and be blessed!


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